What is one of the main reasons people spend money? To save TIME. For example, you take your car to a mechanic to get your oil changed. You save time, the mechanic gets a profit. Cha-ching!
Now if you were to take the time to change your oil yourself, you would save yourself money. Better yet, if you became skilled enough, you could work on other people's cars and earn a good living off of it. Cha-ching!
Think of other creative ways you can help people save time, and you can earn a great living.
Because people want to save time, many guys don't want to take the time to learn how to pick up women. They want sex NOW, so they hire a prostitute. The guy and prostitute have sex - Cha-ching!
If you have patience and actually take the time to learn the art of picking up women, you don't have to use the services of a prostitute, or settle for someone less than what you deserve. You'll make some mistakes along the way, but if you read some good material on picking up women, and then actually put it into practice, eventually you'll get good enough to score fairly regularly. Then you can use the money you save to rent a hotel room or whatever you wish.
Once you build your pickup skills sufficiently, you can actually make money from others. No I am not talking about being a male prostitute. What I mean is this... have other guys learn from you how to pickup women and profit from it. Sell E-Books, become a professional dating consultant, or figure out another way to profit from educating other guys on how to score with women. Many guys have already made a good living from this. Once I have enough material on this website, and I feel people are benefiting from it, I am going have some AWESOME products available for great prices that will help you pick up the ladies.
Patience will actually help you score with the ladies when you are talking with them. If you make your move too soon, you will get the opposite effect that you are hoping for. She will see you as a creep and run the other way. Instead, concentrate on having awesome conversation, making her laugh, and flirting. If she reacts positively, don't act too interested too soon.
Remember, whether you are looking for a new lover or money, desperation is your enemy, confidence and a sense of humor are your friends.